I love my boyfriend and he loves me. I care about him a lot. But the problem is that I cause him problems. He has really bad anxiety attacks when I don't reply to him after a few hours, he is emotional unstable, clingy, and depressed. This started happening when we started to date. I have come to a conclusion I am unhealthy for him.(his family says so to). It's gotten to the point that he has to know what I'm doing. I can't say nothing, like normal people, because he starts to get uneasy. I don't want to leave him, but I also don't want to cause him problems. He says he is fine and can handle it, but he obviously can not.