So she broke up with me. I said okay and hung up. Over the next couple of weeks I would reach out to her. Most recently I text her mom and asked if she thought we had a chance to get back together. Her mom said no, but she thought her daughter was dumb for dumping me. I had wrote the woman an email pouring my heart out. Told her to respond if she had an interest in getting back together. She responded about 6 hours later and said she needed time to think about it. 24 hours later she wrote me a long email saying she couldn't. Her mom forwarded the messages between us to her and she text me back saying there is no chance and she is not in love with me anymore. I feel like this woman is my soulmate and the woman I am supposed to marry. I didn't cheat on her, gave her unconditional love and am the exact opposite of her other relationships. I am 30, she is 34. We both have children. Any advice or opinions on whether we have a chance of getting back together?
Is there a chance for us?
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This honestly is a tough one. I won't tell you to give up but i won't tell you it will be easy. If you want her back, maybe start out as friends. Send her a message or something saying that you are sorry for how things ended between both of you guys but that you would still like to be in her life as a friend. And lets see how it goes from there. If it goes good. Talk to her as a friend dont mention anything about the realtionship or past. Dont pry on her love life. Then of all goes well. Invite her to catch up. If she says yes, be happy be nice etc. Talk about what is going on in her life. dont bring up your relationship. Just be the man thay she fell in love with. And at the end. Tell her how much you enjoyed it and you would like to do it again sometime soon. Dont text her after. Allow her space to text you. And pray that all goes well. BE POSITIVE0
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It really doesn't sound like there is a chance. Sorry hun!
I would give her some space, the ls thing you want to do is smother her to death all that will do is push her away from you. Maybe in a month or two try contacting her again, and if you decide to contact her again just ask her to coffee or lunch and don't be forward about asking her to date you again.0
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