I have one: Because they are gonna treat them the same way they treated you.
Most Helpful Guy
Agreed, good genesis
#2 - now they have a keeper to keep them away from me
#3 - now I have a more detached & rational negotiator in future dealing with kids, visitation, other bonds not yet severed
#4 - they will keep them busy, too busy to continue plotting my harm & bad memories
#5 - if something bad happens, they have someone else to blame it on
#6 - eventually their bad habits & dark side will rise and others will take care of all that, not me ever again
#7 - someone else's back gets their knife forever on
Most Helpful Girl
I guess don't be jealous because the person would not make you happy. I am still suffering from a break up from my ex. I cared about him deeply. Breaking up was not an easy decision and certainly not made a day before. Every time I think about being jealous, I remember why I broke w/him in the 1st place, all the doubts that I had.