He swore that he was going to change and make time for me. He said he wanted us to be the couple that everyone was jealous of and he wanted to love me better. So I decided to take things slow and to try friendship until I could see how serious he was.
Now he's back to his lying, playing victim and horrible communication. I think he'should emotionally unavailable and had his own issues to work through.
Can I just cut him off by ignoring his messages?
Most Helpful Guy
You want to break it off completely with him? If so, you need to meet him for coffee and explain to him why you aren't going to see him anymore.
If you don't, he will continue to pester you. When you cut him off, block him on all social media and if you have an iPhone, block his number in it.
Just ignoring his messages is mean and childish. Be an adult and do it in person. Not text or on the phone. Good luck!1
Most Helpful Girl
I mean, you can just cut him off by ignoring his messages, BUT it's not the best way.
You said he has horrible communication, so if you just cut him off by ignoring him, you're doing the exact same thing... you're just not communicating with him.
I'm sure he has plenty of faults, but I think it's best to tell him, straight up, why you don't see anything further with him. Tell him he's back to his old habits by lying, horrible communication, etc., and that's not who you want to be with.2