It's normal for the one getting dumped/rejected to occasionally stalk/check out but I wonder how the one doing the dumping feels and acts. I have been dumped a few times in my life and the guys always came back and messaged me again, some wanted another chance even though they were the one rejecting/dumping me. So I know they must have been checking me virtually out a few times but still, I am curious how you guys feel.
Most Helpful Guy
I got dumped a couple of months back, in the beginning I was obsessed with checking their facebook and other things, re reading the last texts, but not so much. I don't contact a woman that leaves me for no reason, it's counter productive. I do feel the urge to contact them, but rage kicks in and I gladly dismiss the urge. she calls me up every other week and I answer, ugh
Most Helpful Girl
I did that and it really doesn't help. I even went on his new girl's profile (ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh -.-) I blocked all the pages to refrain myself to do it again and removed my accounts.
Since then, I am mentally sane.
I don't have the urge to contact him, just see how he is doing.