Why has he gone weird on me 😕?
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From my experience, most guys don't like drama and complications. And for a guy who just got divorced, even more so. Divorce is an extremely stressful experience, add to that his job as a doctor and I wouldn't blame him for not wanting any more stress in his life. I think he did the right thing, by being upfront to you and telling you how it is. And I agree with him, that you need to seek help to sort out your eating disorder problem.
I'm sorry I think this guy just means exactly what he is saying. He seems like a good guy, not to lead you on. However, I think since you are still obviously invested in him, it might not be the best idea to remain friends with him. It would just be awkward a and likely lead to hurt feelings, because of an imbalance of expectations between you two.
I would take a break like he suggested, cut all contact, work on my eating disorder, and get in touch with him, when you are more ready for a relationship. If he is not seeing anyone at the time (or you don't find someone in the meantime,) there is a chance you could pick it up again in the future. But the timing is just not right at the moment.
If there is anything I have learnt from my dating adventures, it's that timing is very crucial in making a relationship work.1
I think he's backing off and trying not to hurt your feelings. Sorry I don't think he's interested anymore. I say dont wait around for him and keep meeting other people.1
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