me and this guy has been talking for about 2 months. No kiss yet and no exclusivity yet. Last time I brought it up, he said we were "getting to know each other". Well I don't have many feelings for him anymore and I think we are just too different now. I have gone on a couple of dates with another guy and it seems to be going well. On top of that we haven't really hung out recently. We really haven't talked since the 31st. When I confronted him he said he didn't have his phone on him. On the 1st I decided to wait it out to see if he texts me and it's currently the 6th and we haven't communicated since. Me and him are both introverts but I don't think its working anymore.
I want to talk to him in person but he works days and I work evenings so there isn't really time to meet up and we really don't go out on traditional dates. Because of that I was wondering if it would be okay for me to just text him and let him know that I'm just not interested anymore?
- Texting is okay in this situationVote A
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Most Helpful Guy
I broke up twice without giving any explanation, just by starting to avoid her.
I still feel uneasy about it.
But one was simply too young and didn't believe that. I broke up before the first kiss)
The other one was too prudish.0
Most Helpful Girl
... And we haven't communicated since...
Let sleeping dogs for now, why open up a smelly can of worms if this is the case and no face?
However, if he decides to find the time to Push a button on his own end, my friend, simply tell him you are really busy at this time, have family issues, and you will be in touch when you can. And it could be too he is sending signals to you in his own way of perhaps ending this as well, I can tell.
I am sure this will end any 'Issues' you were having with this guy with no try. No need to go barking up the wrong tree with thee, it seems you have found a new pup and this is now what is up.
Good luck and start off the new year, dear. xx0