so I have been dating this guy for like 3 weeks and at first everything was nice. we went out, we had fun, and I loved to be around him but since we are both in college I understand we can't go out all the time but everything has just gone down hill. I do not feel excitement about seeing him or anything its so monotonous it makes me sick. also, he left to go see his brother friday and is no gonna spent v day with me. I don't know if I like him anymore what should I do? let him go and ignore the comment people make about ditching me for v day or try to make the relationship work?
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Does it really make you sick, or are you convincing yourself that it makes you sick, because you feel mildly rejected - tho not that you are.
I think because it IS young, you should talk to him, just to check in & compare noted.
a very similar thing happened to me, & I stopped talking t him & I thought he stopped talking to me, & finally before I eft I talked to him just t see why he did not just tell me he was not into me any more & he said that I was ignoring him so he figured I did not like him. So he asked me why I did not ASK HIM, & I said the same thing he did.
Anyways, I had to leave so that was that, but we did the same thing 1 year later & at some point he told me how he had always had feelings for me , but again I was leaving - So basically I am just saying now while you are young^^ & it is young just TALK to him.. The way I see it is, the only reason to NOT TALK is to let things develop ^& see where it will go without shocking someone with delusions of grandeur too soon^.
But if you are thinking of breaking it, then TALK BEFORE YOU LEAP.
( What harm col it do, things can change from being busy & stress it does not mean they are forever CANGED.)