I want to break up with my boyfriend but I honestly do not know what reason I can give him as to why I want to. I'm going to be going off to school in the fall and yes this is a while a way but I just don't really want to be in a relationship right now. In addition to this, I just don't care for him like I have guys in the past and I cannot keep pretending.
I just don't know how I going to be able to break up with him because he seems so happy that I'm his girlfriend. I feel like I'm so mean but I don't know what to do really. Also if we do break up, it will mess up a lot of friendships because I'm friends with all of his friends and vice versa. Please help me, I'm in such a difficult situation!
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You are not happy with the relationship and you seem more concerned about his happiness and the fallout namely the friends choosing between team wschic2010 and team exbf. Clearly his happiness is more important than yours and the drama of people choosing between the two of you should be avoided. You should stay together for the sake of you children, sorry I meant to say friends. Just kidding. Its not like you are married, you can be honest and say you don't want to be in a relationship, you're not happy, you're pretending, you don't care for him so why lead him on, put him out of your misery and be done with it. You can use the its not you its me line, or think of a creative way to extracate yourself from this mess. How would you feel if it was the other way around he were more attracted to him than he is to you and was just pretending. I wouldn't like it.
Your friends can choose. Make some team wschic2010 t shirts up and start recruiting. Or in the alternative have your cake and eat it to. Do a secret break up. You agree to break up secretly for the sake of the friends you might have to put something on the table to sweetten the deal like an open relationship so that you are together but can date other people.0