I have a boyfriend we have been going out for a little over a year on and off. when we first started dating I cheated on him and out of guilt I told him what I did. and he forgave me but after that he lost trust in me which I totally understand. then I ended up breaking up with him because he was always texting me and would freak out whenever I didn't text him right back. then we got back together like 3 months later but he wasn't the same he would get mad if I went out with my girlfriends and he got mad wen I would hang out with guy friends. I then left him again but once again came back to him now he has a ton of rules like I have to do whatever he says I can't wear low cut tops no t shirts no talking to guys I have to tell him wen I'm leaving and wen I'm coming back and who I'm going to be with. he's getting really possessive could this become an abusive relationship?
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Omg! he is just scared that you will cheat on him again and that's y he wants to know each and every detail about you so that he won't feell insecure.. I hope you understand what I am saying! and yes, it can be abusive.. trust me, my x was the same..i never cheated on him and was really kind but he wanted to control all the time..he slapped me so many times, he kicked me out of his car , 3 times, without even thinking how am I going to go back home..then I kicked him out of my life..in the end it was enough! sorry, I got in details about me..
nobody is perfect, he likes\loves you a lot that's y he gave you another chance after you cheated on him but that does'nt mean that he is going to control ur life..u should talk to him about that before something happens!0