My now ex of 8 months very suddenly broke up with me yesterday (totally out of the blue, for whatever reason he'd been telling me that he was happy and how much he loved me) he claims we're too different and that we wouldn't mix well for long term and that he wasn't happy with us. He says it's not personal and that I'm a great person and I'll make someone really happy but it's not him. How do I not take that he's unhappy personally? How is that an offensive thing? How do I cope and move on?
Most Helpful Guy
Half the planet are men. Most relationships aren't successful, if they were we'd all be married to the first we ever dated0
Most Helpful Girl
The whole point of a relationship is to see if you are meant for someone. The only two outcomes are that it works or that it doesn't. Sometimes there will be signs sometimes there aren't. Just realize it's normal for relationships to end and that it doesn't take away anything from you as a person. This just means there is someone better for you out there and the universe knows this. I'm sure there were many happy moments for him in the relationship. I think he just meant that overall he didn't feel that connection anymore. Time will help to healheal your wounds. Just take it oneone day at a timetime and stop all contact with him.0