My ex and i broke up a little over 3 months ago and she broke up with me cuz i was too dependent and she told me she lost feelings for me, ever since she has been in a bad emotional state, always saying she had a terrible day the other day she told me i was the only one she talked to on a daily basis! She is very upset tonight, I've been asking her to hang out to try and get her mind off things I've told her im here if she needs anything! What else can i do? I want to keep her in my life i care about her a lot, yes i do still have feelings for her ( as you can tell) i want her to know that its not a bad thing to only talk one person yea we dated but that just means we have trust in one another i trust her with my life and find her to be very amazing and she deserves so much better than to be so depressed right now! I want to just hug her and be there for her! What do i do?
What can I do in this situation?
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It's gonna be up to her man. It's cool that you're offering an ear to her. But she may feel she can't talk to you because of the things you mentioned. Maybe she doesn't wanna lead you on by accident or maybe she feels that if she keeps talking to you, her feelings for u may come back, which is something she doesn't want. She's used to telling you everything, but she's trying hard not to end up back with you. It sounds mean but it's something she just doesn't want with you right now. I'd say to just leave her be. Let her come to you.0
All you can do is keep trying to reach out, but eventually you'll have to move on if she doesn't want to get back with you0
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