How can you tell if your ex wants to have sex to get closer to you (maybe back together) or if your ex just wants to have sex with you for a booty call?
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Been there, done that. I think in the beginning we genuinely wanted to see if things would work out but alas they didn't because the reasons why were broke up were still there (of course). Long story short it turned into a long friends with benefits thing and today its still about sex. We haven't slept with other people for two years so its a comfort thing for sure.
If he wants you for you he'd ask you out to talk things through or to see how you guys get along. If the date ends in sex then so be it but his motive should be to see if being with you, talking to you.. works. It's not all about sex. How would you feel if you just had sex with him and found out he didn't want to be with you at all? There are a lot of factors. I was fine with it but that was my relationship and it was what it was after 3 years together. Think about what you really want.1