I had never given out my number to men, but to my gfs. Me and my boyfriend broke for about a week and 1 of my friends gave my number to guy who was already my friend. Me and my boyfriend got back 2gether and then this guy started calling me. I would talk w. him for 5-10 min but only sometimes. I never called him, but we were gonna hang out.
I told my boyfriend where we'd be at and that this guy was calling me. he seemed fine with it. During this time this guy made me nervous and kissed me. I tried to leave but I didn't know my way back home casue it was my first time there. so I went with it. we didn't have sex, and after I kept saying to leave the guy showed me back home
When I got home I called my boyfriend and told him what happened. (we got physical). I never like the guy that way, and I told him I just didn't know what to do. He said I cheated on him, and then he cheated on me for 10mos with his coworker and never told me. I found out from her showing up.
Her said that he did to get back at me form me cheating on him. but I don't fell like I cheated on him, since I never wanted to do anything with the guy. Is this cheating?
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The definition of cheating is open to interpretation. You will find a number of different answers depending on whom you ask. I personally would of appreciated the honesty if you told me you kissed another guy. Based on your honesty I wouldn't pin this mistake as cheating. The trust bond would be hurt though, which would require some time to heal. If you had sex with the guy, different story, that's a whole world of different hurt than just kissing. My definition of cheating is being emotionally attracted and or hooking up someone that is not your significant other, whether it be your boyfriend or wife/husband, AND LYING ABOUT IT. The dude cheated on you, based on my definition, and is an asshole for it. As tough as it may be to realize right now, the dude isn't worth your time, and you should just walk away and find someone whom will respect you and treat you well, not get back at you.
On another note, kissing the other dude was something that you should of known as something that you SHOULD NOT DO if you had a boyfriend. We all make mistakes, nobodies perfect, but you should know (I hope you do) that its not okay to do. If you want the luxury of working multiple men, remain single.0