My ex and I broke up 4 months ago. I really wasn't being a very good boyfriend at the time and she wanted to see if the grass is greener on the other side. Truth is I still love her very much. I have no idea if we will get back together, or if this will even make things better. We communicate, but, very very little. The gift would be just something silly like cupcakes for her and her sons. Its not meant to be anything but maybe an olive branch to open communication again.
Most Helpful Girl
I honestly wouldn't send it on Valentines day. Send it after Valentines day. Even if you're still thinking of her, i'd try and limit any contact on that day. However, i do think it would be a sweet gesture.
If you're wanting to push for more contact with her you need to get her to be interested again. Have you been talking about general everyday things, or things you know that she's genuinely interested in? Something she's passionate about? I'm not sure how long you were together but you must have an idea of how to make her laugh? Then tell her interesting things about what's happening in your life. Something that she would definitely respond to. Try slowly, and be patient. If she's in contact at all with you, it's a good sign.1
Most Helpful Guy
Sure, but keep your expectations low.2