I broke up with my boyfriend almost a month ago, around the same time this guy I thought I really liked got out of a relationship. I'm starting to realize the reason I broke it off was for me to hopefully talk to the guy I thought I really liked. I'm not into him and I can't stop thinking about my ex. I catch myself staring at my ex and when someone mentions another girl flirting with him, I kind of tense up and I feel heartbroken that I lost someone as amazing as him. What does it mean?
Most Helpful Guy
it means you didn't realised what you had until it wasn't around any more2
Most Helpful Girl
"I'm starting to realize the reason I broke it off was for me to hopefully talk to the guy I thought I really liked."
^ Was that really the only reason why you broke up with your ex? Are you sure you're not only thinking about him now because you and the other guy didn't lead to anything and you're just lonely?
If you genuinely do regret breaking up with him, maybe try talking to him and telling him you made a mistake and miss him or something.3