hi need help with this ex girlfriend of mine and understanding her better. weve been dating for four years and the last year it was rocky on and off. i love her and i mess up by being an asshole and she leaves me but then i keep annoying her and telling why is she doing this and she would just be cold. she would break up with me and says she's done entirely but then when i dont contact her she contacts me and then we rekindle things. this time she says she's done i still haven't left her alone and she says she loves me but she doesn't want a relationship anymore that wrre done for good bascially and i got weak becuase i really love this girl. i told her that i need to move on then if this is it and to call me when she changes her mind and i told her im not going to be contacting her anymore and that just made her quiet and i made my goodbyes and hung up. what i wanna know is why does she tell me this? she says she's really over me after 2 weeks and says were done completely? i still love this girl she's my first love but i know I've been acting like a total ***** and i know i need time away from this girl to improve a lot of areas in my life. i dont know what to do. the only information i got that i really believe is that she's confused? i just wanna put this behind me. but whats up with her?
Need help understanding this girl?
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You do need to move on. This is not mature or healthy behavior. Find a girl who isn't a mess.0
she's so insecure0
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