I recently just started dating this kid whom I have dated before and broke up with because he cheated on me. I know he won't cheat on me again and I trust him completely. but I've got a player rep also. Anyways I was at my best girlfriends house (she goes to a different school) and we walked down the road to this kids ryan's house. Ryan is like a man whore and he always like to hook up with new girls. in the end I ended up hooking up with him. I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend? break up with him? or just not tell him at. I am leaning towards not telling him because I don't want to hurt him and it will destroy him and just strengthen the player rep and make me a cheater.
and oh that is the first time I have ever cheated.
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first time you ever cheated...strengthen the player rep...that's a huge secret to have from him. Here's how it happened to me...1 month before we got married she cheated with a guy from work. She's the one that chased him. I suspected, but she lied and denied. Only days following our wedding I found out the truth. The way I see it is that she had every chance to be honest with me and tell me the truth. Now, I feel that our wedding day was a joke and our marrage is a joke. I never believe anything she tells me or if she's being honest with me is something that a always doubt. I should have been given the chance to decide to marry this girl knowing the honest tuth. Now I know you may not be actually looking to marry this guy, but turth is it will hurt either way. Yeah he may never find out...BUT! if he does and knows that you lied or kept it from him...well then you still become a cheater, liar, player, slut, unfaithful and all the other junk that comes with cheating. Had she been honest with me we may would have had a chance to work things out, but because she was both unfaithful and lied and kept it from me...I will forever dispise her for it and resent her. You can still make this as a "mistake" and not something you don't regret and want to keep secret from him. You did it...now own it.1