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i have a boyfriend but didn't tell my "ex" about him. My current boyfriend also doesn't know bout, ex (why should he?). Boyfriend and I get really serious, talking marriage and future. And ex still hasn't an idea. Even though I haven't responded in months, he's writing me again from two Saturdays ago, and said I don't need to respond and that he'll write again following week, he did. He also said, again, that he'll write again next Saturday too. Wtf omg. do i need to actually tell him? Should I? He's assuming I'm not in a relationship or is he in denial? Ignore him or how should I tell him?
I hate he's doing this around Valentine's day too like he has something up his sleeve to try to impress me or something. I want to not respond cause I'm just thinking of my boyfriend who I love... honestly wanna delay this to whenever so I can enjoy my weekend with boyfriend without these dumb considerations when I check my inbox in the days preceding to this weekend. I have zero feelings for ex. At the same time kinda feel bad that maybe I was supposed to tell him, but this feeling is overridden by the thought that I'm not obligated to tell him anything.
I have a boyfriend but I didn't tell my "ex" about him, should I?
What Guys Said 3
You don't have to tell your ex a damn thing besides please leave me alone. Spend your energy on the great guy you have now.1
I've been that guy or well kid. I was 15 dated a pretty girl that was 17. It was cool for me but she wasn't having it after a month lol anyways she never really broke up with me. Leaving things open ended and confused. I still pursued her. Mean while she's deep in love (or whatever we think love is at that age.) With another guy. Basically no matter what it's gonna hurt being that guy. But then I also had to deal with feeling like such a foolish fool. let him down easy1
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