- yes you can wonder why things ended without wanting to get back together
- no if you wonder why it ended it's because you wish you were still together
- im on the fence/I think it can work either way/I have no clue
Most Helpful Guy
It's not healthy to wonder about it. You might be over him but it might still feel like a blow to your self-esteem that he left you.
The dynamics of why a relationship don't work usually don't boil down to a single variable, the full reasons are impossible to know short of being a mind-reader. So wondering about this is usually just kind of torturing yourself, you don't find answers but only endless questions.
Most Helpful Girl
Of course it's possible to think back about past relationships and wonder what went wrong. I don't think it has to mean you wish to be back with your ex. Reflection on the past is pretty normal; you live and you learn, right?