My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. He reached out to me a few times blah blah. Finally, I had enough of letting it slide and asked the real reason why he broke up with me (As I knew the one he had given me was BS)
Then he exploded and said he was the only one who put effort into our relationship and I did nothing to make him happy. He asked me to wear lipstick before we broke up and I didn t wear any. So apparently that pissed him off enough so he left me...
Most Helpful Guy
He didn't break up with you because you didn't wear lipstick.
He broke up with you because he felt like you made no effort to do things to please him. The lipstick was a specific example.
Whether he's a controlling ass who can't compromise, or whether you actually did nothing, we can't say.0
Most Helpful Girl
At first, I really though it was about a lipstick but you answered your own question with "said he was the only one who put effort into our relationship and I did nothing to make him happy."
Lipstick is just a stupid trigger. This was obviously about way more than that and you do understand it.7