I'm a real good guy. I have never cheated on any of my girl friends, never forced them to do anything they didn't want to do, and always respected them. Well every girl I try to hook up with always tells me that they have trust problems because there old boy friends cheated on them. This happens to me all the time. I feel like no matter how nice I really am, no girl will ever truest me. How many of you girls were cheated on? And do you have trust problems with other guys?
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My very first boyfriend cheated on me multiple times. He devastated me and left me heart broken. It took me about 2 years to get over him and "try" to be open to trusting. After I dated him, I met an awesome guy who was literally perfect in my eyes. He took the time to build trust with me and understood he had to earn it. I admit that it took a long time to FULLY trust him but he never rushed me.
It sounds like you are one of those rare guys that many girls wish for. You embody goodness and really know how to treat her well. I think you need to be patient, show her that you respect and care for her and take an interest in her and her life. Trust is something that develops over time. The more she sees that you aren't like the loser who hurt her, the more she will let her guard down and trust.
Also, remember that she probably isn't used to being around a good guy. I know this sounds weird but when you date someone who plays games, is disrespectful, disappears on you etc. it's an adjustment to have someone who actually cares. When I dated a good guy, I was like, "God, look at how wonderful he is. I was really missing out before. I am going to enjoy this and appreciate him."0