I was dating Donovan for nearly a year and he broke up with me when we had a big fight. A month before we broke up I found out that he was cheating on me with some girl named Brea. I decided that we could work things out as long as he could honestly tell me it would never happen again (which he did). When we broke up we decided to continue talking to try to work things out but I didn't know at the time that him and Brea were talking to. He told me one day, out of nowhere, that we would never be together again and that him and Brea were dating. About a month later he texted me and said he couldn't be with me but he couldn't be without me. So he started cheating on his girlfriend with me... We have been "friends with benefits" for 3 months now... I think that if he was really in love with his girlfriend like he says he is then he wouldn't be cheating on her with me... I know that I am still in love with him and I would do anything to be with him again but I'm almost positive that he doesn't feel the same about me. I tried to move on but I cant. I don't even want other guys talking to me much less starting a relationship with someone... How do I get Donovan to leave Brea so we can try to work things out?
How do I get my ex to leave his girlfriend?
What Guys Said 1
you seriously need to get some self respect. you deserve better than some guy who is doing this kind of crap. you think that if he leaves this girl then he'll be faithful to you? are you on the crack?0
What Girls Said 1
He's already told you he would never be with you again. When he contacted you again, he said he couldn't be with you again making sure you understand that you would not be dating again. He's clarified it a lot.
He knows you're still in love with him, that's why he knows you'll continue to sleep with him, without giving you anything more.
If you want more, you have to stop sleeping with him. Tell him straight out, you can't sleep with him without being his one and only girlfriend. When he resists, follow through. Stop sleeping with him!
It may hurt you for a while as he resists the ultimatum, but it will turn around for the best.1
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