Met a girl 4 months ago and we hit it off instantly. I had some amazing times with her - I thought that things were going really well and I am sure she did as well. We were seeing each other a few times a week but we were constantly in contact all day, everyday. We had a really strong connection.
So, last week, on the Tuesday I got a call from her saying she's having a bad day - her ex has been on the phone and has been arguing with her. She said she doesn't like him and didn't have anything good to say about him. I noticed a change in her after this and she cancelled our meet up saying she had to work. I text her asking if she was alright as it just seemed "off". I got a reply she has a lot going on and her head is all over the place.
The next day she texts saying "just friends" I asked her why and she said it all changed when the ex got in touch. She admitted that it was - she thought she was ready to move on but there's still feeling there, things were going really well but its not fair if she can't give me her all.
I had left stuff at hers so we arranged to meet up to get them back, she suggested I go to hers and get a takeaway. I went, we ate but I never said what I wanted to say.
Text her the next morning, saying I needed to get things off my chest - basically head over heels for her, we had a connection that I have never felt before etc. She replied saying she didn't realise that I felt that way, she agreed about the connection and how confortable we could be around each other but her head is all over the place and if things are meant to happen they will do and she thinks she will regret her decision.
I haven't spoken to her since - I am gutted by the whole situation. Question is - do you think she will regret it and make contact? I am not going to sit around and wait for her - I have already been on a date with someone else.
My friends say I should go no contact and move on - but I want her back!
Don't understand why she messaged me, is it just to stay in contact or is there a meaning behind the text
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It's a tough one, sorry pal.
But if she isn't over the ex ( it happens ), Let her go and figure out what she wants.