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Um... so this is a bad example but I'm going to share it anyway.
Really about 30 seconds but there were 10 days between my being interested in them and my shifting of my attention/affection to someone else.
The first guy kind of did a 180 and became assaultive and I broke up with him.
It's REALLY easy to get over someone when the relationship ends when he attacks you. And then 10 days after that I reconnected with a guy who I'd met a year prior on vacation.
And said guy from vacation and I became very close friends for four years and are coming up on 5 years together of actual dating.
But... if we ended... I think it would take a while (certainly longer than 10 days lol) to get over him. Probably a few years at least.0