I ended things with a guy i was seeing in November because i wanted more from this relationship than he did. He was upset but we didn't talk for awhile. Then last month he contacted me saying how much he appreciated me and wanted to see how I was doing and was considering a relationship but did not elaborate much and when I asked him about it further he still didn't say much so I knew he wasn't serious about really talking so the conversation ended shortly. He also said he was going to pay me back the money he owed me. Between then and now he's contacted me 3 more times but just to say he would pay me back and see how I was doing but that was it. Its very rushed and brief contact. I think he really doesn't have the money to pay me back, so why does he keep contacting me if he's not really interested in opening up and talking?