I met this guy about 2 weeks ago. He asked me for my number and we hung out. We had such a good time.
The thing is, he always says the whole.. oh ill call you back thing, and he never does? He said that about 5 times now? No call back.. I don't get it.
Well we were supposed to hang out on 2 separate occasions, and he canceled on me saying he forgot he had to go to work, and the second time he didn't have a ride or something.
He texts me and tells me these things, but then when I text him he won't respond.
I texted him just now because I want to know why he is doing this, and I honestly want to know if I'm just wasting my time.
I've been hut by guys in the past, just recently about 2 months ago too. So I'm cautious
What should I say to him if he responds?
I'm super confused!
Most Helpful Girl
FORGET HIM FORGET HIM FORGET HIM
Seriously, he's flaking on you. You are just an interest, clearly among many, and clearly not a priority one, but more of a backburner one.
There is a 1% chance he's actually playing it cool and "hard to get" but overall, no.
It's one thing if he says he'll call back once and doesn't. And it's one thing if he doesn't text back once or twice. But if it's often, then you know this is a real waste of time.
If he only ever texts you come nighttime and not throughout the day, then he's clearly even less interested and just downright bored.
Those lame excuses about forgetting he has to work and not having a ride are almost always bs. Work is the number one reason anyone ever uses. Family emergencies is generally second. Besides, if he really wanted to see you and they were true, he'd call you to tell you but be insistent on setting another date for rescheduling.
Move on and cut off contact. If he texts you again don't respond, ignore. Let him feel what it's like to be the one waiting. Thing is, if he's not interested, he probably won't even care.
If you still like to text with him, you can if you like, but know that 99% he's just bored and not serious, and you can't expect anything from this.0