Found out girlfriend is cheating but she is pregnant?
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First off dude , I'm sorry you had such a useless girlfriend. Yes leave her be for now , but the next time she calls answer the phone and man up and tell her you know about her cheating. She will deny it as they all do. That just adds another lie to the list and nothing more. Tell her that when the child is born you want a paternity test done. If the baby is yours , be a man and be a part of the child's life ; if not then you have no responsibility beyond that.
She's probably cheating on you, based on the details you've provided.
Confront her with your circumstantial evidence to explain why you are breaking up with her.
no matter what, break up with her.
demand, with a lawyer, a paternity test.
If it is not yours, make her sign a legally binding document that says she acknowledges you are not the father and she will never claim the baby is yours, will never seek child support from you. nothing. And then never see her again.
if it is yours, you have 7 months to get a better job, and make sure you have money to pay child support. And if you are paying for a kid that is yours, make damn sure you get joint custody. You have every right to be a father, and not just someone who cuts a check weekly to a kid who doesn't know you, and likely will grow to hate your guts based on her lies. You have to make sure that doesn't happen.
And, other then when you pick up your kid, or visit to see them, have nothing to do with her.
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