Should I keep trying or let go?
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So I'm guessing that you want help getting him back? First of all have you done things to make yourself more secure without him? Are you happy and learning new things, creating a new side of yourself he's never seen? Could be a new language, a hobby, learning to cook etc. If not get started on that asap. Make yourself more captivating!
Now I'm assuming it's been 3 months and neither of you have contacted each other? So the best thing to do here is to send him a text he would definitely respond to. It has to be interesting and funny, not too long or short, and definitely not a simple hey or how are you? This has to be the best text you've ever sent.
Then after about a couple of weeks of texting everyday (start with 2 at first, then build up. Also always end the convo's on the high notes, and don't always be there whenever he wants a convo), try to move onto phone calls. After that try and meet up. Don't mention your past relationship. That is over. This is a new relationship and a new you. Make it better and you'll avoid having the same mistakes as last time. He might even move to be closer to you.
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I think you should move on girl. You can't keep waiting because if you wait then he comes back and hurts you again , then you've waisted a big chunk of time. Move on , get someone better. I really hope this helps , pm me if you need to talk.
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