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What did she say? Was it what she really said that was off-base or was it just how you chose to react?
Women say all kinds of BS stuff and they talk way too much. Mostly they just think of themselves. It's quite likely she doesn't even know how it would affect you.
A strong individual will confront that crap right up front - in many cases it's a shit-test and you just failed it. Agree and ampify, use amused mastery, or just tell she's full of it and to knock it off. Depends on the situation. Don't be a f'ing doormat.