I have been following the 30 day no contact rule since my ex broke up with me back in January, and it will be 30 days this weekend. But for the past few days, my ex's brother had been calling my home phone at least once a day, so about 15-20 minutes ago, I called him back to see what was going on because he called me about 3-4 times. When I called him back he sounded pretty happy to hear from me and he told me that he was worried about me and my grandmother in general and because we had some very bad weather yesterday. But we spent probably less than 10 minutes on the phone and he told me that his ex gf/baby mother keeps asking about me and he gave me her number, as I was really close to these two. Were were like a 4some and my ex and I would have made 5years in May. So i was wondering if it was a bad thing that I spoke to his brother even of it was for less than 10 minutes and does it make the no contact rule void? I'm actually glad that I called him back because it validated something that I already knew.
Is it bad that I spoke to his brother?
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Its not a bad thing. They were a big part of your life for the last 4.5 years. A breakup doesn't mean you drop everyone else who was connected to them! At the end of the day, they are the ones he is going to get annoyed at, not you. Don't drop friends when they didn't do anything wrong.1
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