Over a month ago my girlfriend of 1 and a half years found out I asked a girl for nudes over the summer a few months ago and we broke up. I felt like complete shit, I still do and I realize I made the biggest mistake of my life. I honestly have no clue what to do it's been a month and I've never been so upset for so long. We talk as friends quite often but I still really love her and care so much about her, I'm positive she still cares about me but she's been talking to a few other guys and now she found one she's going on a date with someone in about a week. I can't bare to even think about it, I love her so much and I don't know what to do. What's the best way to approach this , should I leave her alone and hope she comes back or should I talk to her and make her realize she needs me? I'm thinking about texting her rn, should I? And if I can, should I try and stop her from talking to/ going on this date?
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She needs you? You're the one that decided to talk to someone else in the first place, consider that if you haven't. She doesn't need you back if she did you would of been together now. Give her time to think about this cuz you need some too, especially if your eyes were wondering to someone else ask yourself.. do you really really, deep down want a monogamous relationship?0