Most Helpful Guy
From what I'm reading it seems that he is trying to assert some control over the reconciliation, for no other reason than to control what happens and when. This might sound like a good thing, but the problem is that he is putting you on the back foot and the progress of the relationship is 100% in his court...
Most Helpful Girl
oh no honey, I understand your pain. Tbh only he knows that so maybe telll him to be more clear. I understand why u'd want answers but i'd say go with the flow. Don't want to give u false hope but just the fact that he thought of it seems like a good sign to me!