Most Helpful Girl
4 years ago I got in a relationship with a guy, I fell in love and everything was great. It was my first true love and the longest relationship. We were together for 3 years, planning to get married. We never fought, we were very compatible and he seemed really happy and satisfied with me, he never complained about anything and neither did I. Then just one day, out of the blue, he tells me that he doesn't think that he loves me anymore, that he doesn't feel the spark and the excitement anymore, that he is curious about others and that I'm not the one. So he just dumped me. Just like that. Not red flags no nothing. It was the biggest slap in my face, the whole conversation lasted for like 10 mins top. From 3 years to 10 mins and everything changed. He didn't even apologized. What can I say... it's been a year now and I still pretty messed up. Haven't learned anything from it. Didn't gained any experience but pain and humiliation. It feels like all of it was pointless.
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, a damaged chick rejected me because she was looking for 9s and 10s to date, while I was only a 5 in her books. It did hurt a bit at that time, but I realised that I dodged a bullet because she had way too many issues.