He's a great cook & mech and my friends &family love him.
Over 5 years of relationship he has made many mistakes mostly being neglectful/ forgetful.
Disnt change address on license got too many tickets & had license taken didn't know it was taken got my car impounded and almost 3 grand in tickets.
He had his license taken for a year I told him to save up over the year for the 3 grand tickets he didn't... I did...
He's gotten several other tickets over the year then went to school to be a mechanic... Something went wrong with one of the classes so he didn't get his credits released
Last year we moved he tried to get a job as mech in different town they couldn't put him on as a mechanic without his credits. So he works in the lube bay
then i I got sick with my liver in the hospital a few months came back he didn't ever want sex for 9 months... Things got better but still working in the lube bay now I'm healthy been healthy for a while.
he's almost 30 still in the lube bay changing oil and tires
5 months ago he got another
800 in tickets
last week got pulled over he fogot to register my car
... I forgot too cause I never drive it
it got impounded and towed went to register and now 1,100 in tickets.
Im not letting him drive the car now but I shouldn't have to mother him
it's really hard for me to tell how I feel cause I'm so mad about all the fuck ups.