Should I go after him or let him go?
What Guys Said 1
If you are feeling this bad and you genuinely feel you will put the in the work and the effort then I would try to get him back. You have nothing to lose from trying1
What Girls Said 1
I think right now you need to give him space. Go into no contact for a full month. Ignore him (unless he says he wants you back etc.), don't contact him at all. Work on being happy, learn something new, take up a new hobby. Keep yourself so distracted you won't have time to think about him. I know how hard it is and how much it hurts x
When the month is up, send him a message (this has to be the best message you've ever sent. It has to be interesting and funny to him, tell him a story. Don't mention the past at all until you're both talking again and flirting with each other.
If you want him back you need to be patient, things won't be easy, and by the end of the first month you might find that you don't want him back. Right now don't make any decisions or choices, but focus on yourself.1
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