I dumped my boyfriend because I thought I felt that he lost interest in me. However, when I wanted to talk about it with him about the break up, he didn't wanna talk about it basically. He ignored my calls so I texted him to say so. He then basically from that day hates me! He won't talk to me still! I want to be friends with him. We only dated for around a month.
Why is he acting in such a way? Why is he mad?
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Perhaps you should have discussed the break-up with him before it happened. I personally find it inconsiderate for a person to leave a relationship without first attempting to discuss the reasons why with the partner being dumped, even if there's no hope of saving the relationship; that way, they know what went wrong, why it went wrong, and how they can keep it from happening in the future (if possible). To deny them that information renders your time together--however long or short--useless and is also a huge blow to their ego.
It's not unreasonable for him to be distant from you since the break-up. After all, what's there to talk about? You're already gone. He needs time to cope with the loss--even if it wasn't a serious relationship, it's still hard to face rejection of any kind. Still, if you guys only dated for a month or so, I'd say the chances of him eventually coming around and rekindling a friendship are fairly good. Just give him some space; maybe another month or so. Try calling him in a few weeks if he doesn't contact you before then.4