So I broke up with my ex of 4 years due to a lot of issues within the relationship.
We've just started talking again with each other, almost on a daily basis and I feel a lot happier in the sense that I'm more in control of everything going on in my own life, I feel like I'm starting to get the old me back. Yet I recently found out he's buying his first house in the same area as I live (about 30min - 1hr drive from me).
Now I find this a bit weird considering there are a lot more reasons for him to stay in the area he currently lives such as work, being close to his tennnis court which he's a member of etc.
Why would your ex move closer to you? Wouldn't it make more sense to find a similar priced area further away from you?
Most Helpful Guy
Could be a number of reasons such as where he works or the fact that the only house he likes is in that area which could be quite possible. But if your on talking terms then that looks pretty good just don't act needy. Take it slowly maybe talk about good old times to bring on nostalgic thoughts. That way you can maybe meet up and reunite :)1
Most Helpful Girl
maybe he just likes the area? Try not to read much into it and keep beimg the way you are ! you worked hard to become happy again :) don't let him play mindgames with you or play with your feelings1