So, i'm in a realtionship, my boyfriend and i met eachother, and he had a lot of issues, he was all over the place, i used a lot of time and energy on helping him.
we're been together for almost 3 months, and have known eachother for 7-8months. and if been a lot of work, we moved straight in together because i'm currently between places. my attraction for him is going away, he is a drama queen, we barely ever have sex. so there are some problems.
i met a different guy the same time as i met my boyfriend, everytime i met him he says i should be his girlfriend, and we have this amazing connection, but i don't know him too well and he doesn't know me. But i feel the strong connection as well.
i can't get him out of my head, i would never end a realtionship for another guy, but he reminded me of my old self, i feel like i've lost a lot of who i am with my boyfriend, i've spent a lot of energy helping him but not getting much back besides a place to live.
i only had a month where i was single before i met my new boyfriend, i also feel the need to work on myself and not be in a realtionship.
so the question i'm asking my self is:
has my crush shown me holes in my realtionship and it's time to move on?
are my feelings for my crush undermining my realtionship and causing me feel this way?
- Break up, you need to focus on yourselfVote A
- Work at your relationship, stop focusing on the crushVote B