Ex girlfriend of 4 years left me. She got my name tattood on her back. She says she don't love me but won't say a final bye n if I ring her she's just cocky. In 21 she's 19 . We lived toegether she spent £60,000 of her inheritance and has left a lot of stuff her but took her clothes n tv. When she came I helped her n give her a hug n kiss n said thank you for everything n all the best she just stood there and didn't respond. due to her feeling guilty of going she ignored my family who was there for her n she was close to n they got a little upset as she didn't even say hi. She said how do u expect us to sort it if they saying snarky comments. I said there upset as your not saying hi. N stuff. So now she's just acting immature and revisiting her old friends as she didn't see them when she was with me. But treating me like crap. I said to her everyone here loves you don't feel guilty and I would hope we can sort us out. In here for you. She ignored it won't say a final bye and I've not contacted her for 4 days. Will she come back n sort us? As we have made a lot of good memories and I was there for her when her dad died and she also left a lot of stuff here including presents n stuff. N she's peed off that we spent so much. She won't cut contact she said u need a phone so We can talk so I did n begged n stuff for a few days now I'm no contact and haven't heard from her?
Will ex girlfriend come back to me?
What Girls Said 1
It's hard to tell but if you've begged her to come back and she's not responding then I wouldn't hold your breath. Maybe text her and tell her your feelings one last time but say that if she doesn't respond then you have no choice but to move on and if she still doesn't respond then it's best you move on0
What Guys Said 1
Her not cutting contact seems like she can't let go of you completely, so you should cut all contact. She either gets all of you or nothing. As far as memories go, it's great you have so many and that works in your advantage if you guys are doing good together. However at this point, those memories mean less to her. She feels a certain way when she is around you and that way she feels isn't good. She chose to leave you despite all the memories and money and whatever. The best thing in my opinion would be to cut all cords in such a way that you leave a window open for her to come back, and move on. This won't ensure that she will come back, but you will get stronger, and the chance of getting her back gets bigger once you cut contact. Begging, pursuing and stuff like that doesn't work. Just live man, it's hard now i know, i've been there, but you'll get out of it. I wouldn't take any of my ex's back, even though after the initial breakups i would have given it all for just one more date with them.2
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