Will ex girlfriend come back to me?

Her not cutting contact seems like she can't let go of you completely, so you should cut all contact. She either gets all of you or nothing. As far as memories go, it's great you have so many and that works in your advantage if you guys are doing good together. However at this point, those memories mean less to her. She feels a certain way when she is around you and that way she feels isn't good. She chose to leave you despite all the memories and money and whatever. The best thing in my opinion would be to cut all cords in such a way that you leave a window open for her to come back, and move on. This won't ensure that she will come back, but you will get stronger, and the chance of getting her back gets bigger once you cut contact. Begging, pursuing and stuff like that doesn't work. Just live man, it's hard now i know, i've been there, but you'll get out of it. I wouldn't take any of my ex's back, even though after the initial breakups i would have given it all for just one more date with them.
So true. I made her a DVD n gave it to her when she got her stuff with the hope it would start nostalgic memories. But my smothering her just made her get angry. So about the money I accidentally put £7 into her account due to me loosing my job I need every penny as I was relying on her so I asked for it back n she started on about what about the £50,000 so I just left n it the last text I sent her was that my family and me don't want her to feel guilty n that we all love her n I do n want to see her again n that I have changed n realised the way I was made you feel lonely so I'm her for you if you need me and that's the last time I text her it's been 4 days now. So should I do no contact for months I don't want her to think I don't care n that gives her a reason to not bother but then again I begged n tried my hardest for 2 weeks. In person I seem to get a workable vibe but over the phone she just kept getting angry.
She knows you care, and knows how you feel. Trust me. I had a similar situation with my second ex girlfriend, i also begged her and she pushed me away. That's when i decided that i wasn't me anymore. I wanted to be a confident and happy guy, upbeat and ready to go so to speak. There's not much that's more attractive than someone who has his life together and is happy. Telling her you want her back and can't live without her is really not the way to go. You basically admit you can't keep yourself happy and need her for that. I did no contact with my ex and found myself. Every time i was on the verge of breaking NC or stalking her on fb or whatever, i did as many pushups as i could 3 times in a row. Not only am i ripped now (lol) but also i got a lot happier. The purpose of no contact isn't getting her back, that would just be a happy side effect. The purpose is finding yourself and learning to be happy without anyone's help. Others should make your luck greater, not be responsible for it.
Thanks man. I had no contact but now i text her to see if she's ok and i mentions im applying for a job at a theme park that we loved and always went to. I then rang her and she seems quite happy she was having a few drinks and i wished her well and didn't want to interrupt. then i sent her a nice text saying how i felt that i know i did wrong and acted selfish and didn't show her that i do love her. then rang her as she wanted her books to do tax return and she started getting really angry saying im this and that about us fighting and how much of a dick i am and that she can't wait to change her sim. obv drunk and im just like ok well I am sorry for all of that and we also had a lot of good memories she was like i faked it and was laughing at you which is a LIE. so i left it and sent her a long text as because she kept saying im to late. which how can i be when I've been trying for 3 weeks and she hasn't given me the time of day she's just been stubborn
so yh she said that she can't wait to change her sim. when she was angry that time but before she was like you need a phone so we can talk and stuff i said i got one. then she's just trying to hurt me saying she's changing her sim. so I can't just do no contact because one of the reasons she left is because she thought i didn't give a shit so it would only make her worse which it clearly has as i didn't bother for 4 days.
Man, seriously, you think this will help but it won't. Just cut the contact, she's treating you like fucking crap and you don't deserve that. Besides, no contact means no contact. Go at least 3 months without contact, ignore her texts. The only contact you should have with her is when she calls you. Don't be clingy, it never works
It's hard to tell but if you've begged her to come back and she's not responding then I wouldn't hold your breath. Maybe text her and tell her your feelings one last time but say that if she doesn't respond then you have no choice but to move on and if she still doesn't respond then it's best you move on
I rang her 4 days ago after texting her and saying none of us cheated which is true I realise what I could of done better and should of done b that I can change that and that we always sorted things and became closer. N that my family who we lived with love her no matter what. Would love to see her again n not to feel guilty and that I would love to sort it out. And I said that I'm here for her when she needs me. That was the last text I sent.
Ok I'll leave it :) I do hope she comes around and wants to sort us but thank you for your advice much appreciated.
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