so when we broke up he told me he was doing for me, than he said he thought he was ready for a relationship but he wasn't and he was sorry for pushing me into one, then he said that he couldn't take the distance between us and not being able to see each other, that he really loved me and meant everything he ever told me but that he liked me but only 80% of what he originally did...and that he had never tried with a girl and he did with me but he could feel himself not trying anymore.
so now I'm lost if the reasons he gave me where real and sincere or if he left me because he doesn't love me anymore or if he left me for another girl.
also...is it a bad idea to call him and ask him if he really told me the truth about why he broke up with me(I just really need closure to help me get over him faster). The problem is I really want to be with him again (which I don't know if there is even a chance of that happening) so I don't want to call and ruin my chances. what should I do...and what do you guys think?...plz help me I don't kno what to do anymore.