I. E. When someone is attracted to you, from the beginning & they never intended on being JUST FRIENDS, & if you do not want to date them, they are not interested in having anything to do with you?
I do not tend to put friends into categories as datable or non datable but I notice lots of people do & I have been a victim to both ends quite a few times.
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Frankly, if I'm really interested in someone and they don't want to date me, I don't want to be their friend because it's too DIFFICULT. Being their friend means I have to watch them date OTHER people, and I may be tempted to compare myself to this other person... In situations where one friend likes the other, friendship from the adored person just seems like a runner-up prize; as if I should be so HONORED that they'd still want to be my friend.
Not being friends with someone who has rejected you is just freaking easier to deal with.1