It's hard to understand what happened to me since everything seemed like it was going great. Point is its just a confusing situation for me. At any rate, I'm a white guy and she happened to be Asian. The guy she ended up with was also Asian. I guess I have slight preference for certain Asian girls at my school than other girls, I don't know why. But either way, whenever I see an Asian girl together with a guy, he also happens to be Asian. So I don't know I mean does it matter to girls that I'm a different race than them. I mean could that have been why she left me for him?
Now of course I'm not perfect when I date, I'm still kinda inexperienced to be honest, but I don't know I just feel that what happened here felt just so odd...
Also hopefully I don't come off ignorant writing this, but yeah it's something that's been on my mind for awhile
Most Helpful Girl
To some girls, race matters. To others, not so much.
I'm a white girl and my boyfriend of 2+ years is Asian so I guess I fall into the latter group.
I'm sorry about what happened between you and this girl but her failing to reciprocate your interest doesn't necessarily have to be because you're white. She could've just felt more chemistry and gotten along better with the guy who just so happened to be Asian.
Most Helpful Guy
It matters to some. That said, more Asian girls are living with white guys than Asian guys in the u. s., so TONS of Asian girls are open to dating white guys (and some prefer).
Your mistake was waiting 4 dates to try for a kiss. Should have tried sooner, gotten rejected sooner, and stopped talking to her. You just dragged the 'no' out longer.