I made a huge mistake. Is there anything I can do?
What Girls Said 1
Change first. Then let her see that you have. She may give you another chance but don't bet on it.
What were you doing ';play fighting' with her and trying to 'hold her to calm her down'? You need to understand that this type of behaviour is frightening and wrong.
Your constant trying to get in touch with her now is more of the same.
You have to let her go and keep a distance. Don't make the decision to change your behaviour be conditional on whether or not she takes you back. You need to change anyway, or you will continue to make these mistakes.
Give it a few weeks, maybe 4-6 and then write her a brief letter apologising and ask if she would meet you for a coffee or something. If she says no. Leave it. She has moved on and so must you. If she does agree to see you, keep it friendly and use the opportunity to show her that you have changed. Be polite and attentive. Don't declare your undying love for her or tell her how much you've missed her. She doesn't want to hear that.
What Guys Said 1
i hate to be the one to tell you this but she has been feeling the pain and sorrow you are feeling for a wile. the last argument was just the last straw to the damage that was done over time. if you truly care for her let her go so she can find happiness. look at this a a learning experience to what not to do in a relationship so it isn't repeated.
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