Most Helpful Guy
But I have had years of therapy and I know how to analyze things. I also have a brain that doesn't stop going over things over and over.
I also don't just break up on a whim. I once dated a woman that as soon as you say something she doesn't like she immediately goes to "well then maybe we shouldn't see each other then". I guess is shocked her when I said "ok"
If I am unhappy about something I will go over it every way possible. I first look at it and make sure I am not the issue. Am I being unreasonable? is there something I can do to change the issue?
Then I think, is this something that is worth breaking up over?
and I go right down the list. I take a very detached stance and try not to let emotions get into it until the last run through. Because emotions do play a part. But they can't be the only thing. If I go through everything and come to the conclusion that nothing she does can make me want to stay with her the rest of my life, I break it off and move on. I am not looking to "just have fun" or casually date. I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I had that woman, she had other plans after 25 years. So unfortunately, I am looking again. Hopefully when I find her she is blonde with blue/grey or green eyes lol... as that is my type. But I have dated all kinds.
Most Helpful Girl
No not at all. If anything, I've asked myself why I hadn't done it sooner