We broke up last week and talked last night for the first time in person. We talked for over an hour. He was very nice and understanding. He said that he needs to get his life were it needs to be financially. He is very busy with work on top of a second job he does in the evenings helping out his dad. He said that at the time his feelings are confused and he needs time to think. He doesn't want this to be a break because we know they don't work but he also said that he doesn't want us to run out and jump into new relationships either. I'm just really confused because I feel like he could be the one but I can't say that for sure. He does basically everything I want in a husband other than making time for me. That's what he plans on working on. I just don't know if I should wait or what. He said I could be the one but when people ask he always says he doesn't know. Someone help?
Most Helpful Guy
He's very smart.
You're not his priority. He wants to grow, mature , get rich and have a young, thin, hot wife. Nothing wrong with that.
Let him go, cut him loose, you'll both be doing each other a favor.
However, if you're willing to commit your life to him, be ready for this routine for the next 20 years and never use the matter of fact against him or yourself. It is what it is.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you should put your life on hold for someone else. Go out and enjoy life and if y'all are meant to be together, it'll happen! I know that's a lot easier said then done because I'm going through a similar situation right now but if he isn't the one, you don't wanna miss the right person because your distracted by the wrong one.1