This past Monday my girlfriend and I decided to end our relationship of 4 years. I ended up breaking up with her after realizing how manipulative, abusive, and dishonest she was. To sum things up, she seemed like a good person on the surface, but something about her didn't sit right by me. I could never trust her after catching her in multiple "white lies."
In any case, I haven't been able to sleep well. I was hoping we could end the relationship peacefully and move on. However, she decided to attack my character - not too concerned, as everything she said about me is true about her.
I have no idea why I can't sleep. I don't really miss her... truth be told, I'm glad I decided to end things.
Any advice would be appreciated.
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You don't really miss her, but in a way you're still concerned about her, you're still used to her presence. Imagine, a relationship of four years. It's not something which you forget in just one or two days. For some, it can have a long lasting impact.
You did well in ending things. Do not look back and think of her again, because that's not going to help. Occupy your time with things you like to do. If you convinced your mind that you can live an independent life without her, that's a good start. Now you have to convince your heart/feelings that you can still be successful without her :)0