any sort of answer...will be appreciated.
the story?kinda long story spaces are not enough...
so i wud probably focus on the question i desperately needed.
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If he still loves you it makes everything ten times harder. Why did you guys split up?
If you're feelings aren't reciprocated then it sucks but its easy to move on because there's no hope. If someone cheats on you then you can use the anger to move on. But a mutual split because of circumstance even though you both still love each other is hell. No closure, no anger.. just frustration and sadness.
You need to try to accept that you won't forget him any time soon. The more you try the more frustrated you will become. Instead of setting out to do things with the intention of forgetting him (which will only make you think about him more) try to just stay busy and focus on other things. Another guy would help as it gives you someone new to focus your attention on. One thing I always do is if the girl I love pops into my head I immediately do something else to distract myself, switch on the tv, look for a song, call someone.. anything to change my thought pattern.
There is no quick and easy solution, if there was I'd be selling it and making a fortune :P0