I still think about it every day and im so disgusted by it. how could he do that to me? they grinded, slept together and made out and there was a picture of them walking away from everyone to be alone. he was very drunk but it still bothers me so much. what can i do?
Most Helpful Guy
That was then and this is now. You're walking forward, but facing backwards. Does it hurt? Yup! No none ever said it wouldn't. Relationships come filled with all sorts of interesting things. Some very good and others... very terrible. You don't get to love without the possibility of getting hurt.
For now, start looking at today with your life. And then do the same thing tomorrow. Don't be afraid to interact with other guys. We're definitely not all like your ex! At some point your heart will heal enough to trust again. And when it does, jump in again, head first and never look back. (And then threaten to cut that guys balls off if he even THINKS about another woman! 😉)
You have so much to look forward to in life. Don't let this assholes behavior take up all your time.1
Most Helpful Girl
Try and Move on from this the best that you can here, dear. You Need to keep telling Yourself he is a Dirty dog for Doing the Dirty on you and For... Poo-pooing as well.
Right now, with love in your own Heart right from the Start, it is Tearing you Apart. However, the more you Focus on your own life, the Less Strife... Eventually, you will wonder Why you even bothered with this bone head and what you even saw in him.
Good luck. xx0
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