If someone cheats when they are 18 more than once do they still have potential of being a good husband or will this trait always be with them?

  • They can still be a good husband
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  • This trait will always be with them since it happened more than once
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Cheating, esepcially multiple times, is a strong sign that they are selfish and self-centered and lack empathy (they don't care about hurting other people). Obviously that's not something that makes for a good husband.

    Now, can people change? Yes, but real change requires not only admitting that they were a selfish jerk, but understanding the pain they put others through and an ACTIVE effort to stop that behavior. This does happen sometimes as people get older and mature emotionally, but more often, people like this never change.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • There are two kinds of men out there. Loyal men and men who are not.

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What Guys Said 11

  • People change... but if they cheated at 18 already... you might want to take them out of the running for the "husband" position. Fuck toy at best.
    its gonna take one hell of an effort on your part AND theirs before husband level can be achieved.
    Also anybody can be a husband, but a faithful one, takes a little bit more work.

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  • It all depends on the individual and how they change and view relationships. Maybe after seeing other friends and family hurt by cheating, they'll realize that behavior is anything BUT helpful in any relationship.

    Others... they don't see it as a problem because they're so focused on themselves and their own personal desires, they never get it.

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  • Cheaters generally never change, and it mainly stems from 2 character traits, Being they are insecure and they lack communication skills...

    To be honest, without a major traumatic event, people rarely change, they just become more efficient versions of themselves

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  • At your age? It's not relevant. How can someone cheat if you never married?
    Or do you really think because he's fucking you he shouldn't be fucking someone else?
    They call it spinning plates.

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  • Not likely, no. Yes, they could be a good husband. But remember, "once a cheater, always a cheater". That really is quite true.

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  • A lot of people change as they get older. They can become mature and view things differently.
    Once a cheater, always a cheater for maybe a few years... but things can change.

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  • I think it means they will under the right circumstances

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  • Change is part of the human life. Change your ways and you'll be new personality. No need to fear future due to past.

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  • They already don't have the morality of faithfulness

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  • Nope they will always be a cheater..

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  • It's possible if it's just a phase he was going through.

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